Saturday, 19 November 2016

This Is Serious... When A Grown Man Doesn't Know What He Wants 😕😕😕

Me and my gf or shld I say soon to be ex-gf are fresh graduate set to go for NYSCnxt yr april,  I am  25 and shes 24, we have been dating for 2yrs and madly in love with each other. I hv always known I won't be d one to marry her since I intend to get married at d age of 32 and as a lady i know she can't wait that long plus i am not ready to promise her marriage coz nobody knws wot 2moro holds. She met a guy 5months ago and dey hv been in contact with each other since den, she told me about
d guy though, recently d guy proposed to her, I think she likes d guy to a extent,  she told d guy to give her time to think abt it. She told me abt d proposal and asked wot do I think, I told her its a blessing so she shld say yes, na so she pick quarrel with me dat wot kind of rubbish is this,  how will I ask her to marry somebody else when she has a bf. I explained to her dat not all relatinsnips leads to marriage, i made her see reasons and she finally accepted to marry d guy.The guys parents has gone to meet her parents for a minor intro and their wedding is slated this december.  She went to lagos last sunday to spend a wk with d guy for a little knowing me knowing u. B4 she went i told her i wont call her tru out her stay there coz i no want wahala, she calls me everyday and complain i hvnt called her since she went to Lag, she just called me this evening complaining and crying saying it almost a wk she went to Lag and i hvnt called her except she calls me or flash,  but i am doing all this for her own good, i tried making her see reasons but she wont hear, she said now she know d kind of love i hv 4 her,  honestly dat statement hurt me so bad cos i know i love her for real. Even b4 this i told her things hv changed so we wont see or call like we use too but for where,  she comes to my house without telling me and we end of having sex. After her call this evening i am forced to ask 4 help. Am i wrong for not calling her since she went to lag?  Or for reducing d rate at wch i call her? Also is it wrong 4 asking her not to visit me at home again.  Bcos shes making me question d decision i took.

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